Sunday, June 18, 2006

The balance of love

A woman dies after living a long,dignified life.When she meets him,she ask him something that has bothered her."If Man is created in God's image,and if all men are created equal,why do people treat each other so badly?"

God replies that each person who enters our life has a unique lesson to teach us.And it is the only through these lessons that we learn about life,people,relationships and God.

This confuses the woman,so God begins to explain;
When someone lies to you,it teaches you that things are not what they seems.The truth is often far beneath the surface.Look beyond the masks people wear if you want to know their heart.And remove your own masks to let people know yours.

When someone steals from you,it teaches you that nothing is forever.Always appreciate what you have,for you never know when you might lose it.And never take your friends and family for granted because today is the only guarantee you have.

when someone afflicts an injury upon you.It teaches you that the human state is fragile.Protect and take care your body as best as you can because it's the only thing you are sure to have forever.

When someone mocks you,it teaches you that no 2 people are alike.When you encounter people who are different from you,dont judge them by how they look or act.Instead base your opinion on the contents of their heart.

When someone breaks your heart,it teaches you that loving someone does not mean that a person will love you back.But dont turn your back on love because when you find the right person,the joy that one person brings will make up for all the past hurts put together.

When someone holds a grudge against you,it teaches you that everyone makes mistakes.When you are wronged,the most virtues thing you can do is forgive the offender without pretence.Forgiving those who has hurt us is the most difficult and most courageous,the noblest thing man can do.

When a loved one is unfaithful to you,it teaches you that resisting temptation is man's greatest challenge.Be vigilant in your resistance in all temptation.By doing so,you will be rewarded with an enduring sense of satisfation far greater than the temporary pleasure by which you are tempted.

When someone cheats you,it teaches you that greed is the root of all evil.

Aspire to make your dreams come true,no matter how lofty they may be.Do not feel guilty about your success,but never let an obsession with achieving your goals lead you in malevolent activities.

When someone ridicules you,it teaches you that nobody is perfect.Accept people for their merits and be tolerant of their flaws.Do not ever reject someone for imperfection over which they have no control.

Upon hearing the Maker's wisdom the old woman becomes concern that there can be no lessons to be learned from man's good deeds.God tells her that man capacity to love is the greatest gift he has.At the root of all kindness is love,and each act of love also teaches us a lesson.

When someone loves us,it teaches us that love,kindness,charity,honesty,humility,forgiveness and acceptance can counter act all evil in the world.For every good deed,there is one less evil deed.Man alone has the power to control the balance between good and evil,but because the lessons of love are not taught often enough,the power is often abused.

When you entered someone's life,whether by choice or chance,what will your lessons be?Will you teach love or harsh reality?Each of us has power over the balance of love.Use that power wisely.

给爸爸的一封信

爸爸。。。
您还好吗。。。女儿好想你。。。一直在心里埋着的话都没在您生前一一的告诉您,一直以为您会有福气来看着我们几姐妹成功来让您享福。。。您的离开真的好突然。。。

爸爸,对不起,一直都没办法去和您好好的聊,很怕自己会流泪,会让你烦躁。。。和您通过的最后一通电话都历历在幕。。。没用的我,也在电话那头流下眼泪啃咽的问了一句,爸您还好吗。。。却无法在说出第二句话了。。。

那通电话后,就是回去看到病得很重的您。。。我无法忘记四年前,回到家里的我就看着您躺在病床,我却就好像什么都做不了。。。那时的您看着我,好像很陌生却又有种渴望看见我们成功的样子。。。

我知道我到国外深造是让您为荣的一见事,也知道您好想看到我们从毕业典礼的礼堂走出来。。。但是。。。您还是等不了了。。。爸爸,我一直很想与您分享我的喜怒哀乐,但是都没勇气。。。对不起。。。

爸爸我爱你。。。我知道一切都太迟了。。。但是我只盼来世您还是我的老爸。。。可以让我补偿的孝顺,可以让我亲口说出我爱你。。。可以再次做让你骄傲的女儿。。。可以让我给你享福的机会。。。


一直无法与您好好沟通的女儿着

Special post for my beloved daddy

Time flies… today is Father’s days again… whenever this day comes I will miss my dad the most… missing him with all the guiltiness… missing him with all the tears…

When he was alive I never talk to him nicely… I never really like him at all… I always think he is a very selfish dad… but since I saw him cry… I know he cares… he’s already left us for 4 years… it’s seem like is only happened in yesterday…

Since then I didn’t went back to Malaysia…. I got the sudden urge of writing him a letter… but I guess I need somebody to read for him because he can’t read at all… no matter what I will try my best to read for him myself and I hope he can hear that…

When I almost to start a letter… I can’t control my tears… yes… I’ve been thinking of the pass… when I was small, he always feeling frustrated because I love to cry a lot… he didn’t like people crying at all… but I remember whenever mummy punish us, he is the one who cancel all the punishment and get us to go to bed…

He loves to drink and gamble a lot, but he never forgets us… when he won some money from gambling he will buy some nice food or supper for us… he will always forgives us for all the mistakes we’ve done… whenever mummy refuses to sign our report of our result… he will sign for us…

He had his motorcycle as the vehicle to go everywhere… I love to see him fetching mum to go everywhere they want… it is so sweet that seeing daddy getting ready with his helmet and mum’s helmet waiting for her to get ready and being naggy to us before she left…

I am so lucky because he drives carefully wherever he goes… he loves to buy us fried chicken form the night market… and whenever we know the day of night market we will wait for daddy to come home with the chicken… he knows we love it… and I will always make sure daddy have the drumstick because he love it…

The feeling of missing him is so strong now… I wish he is here seeing his daughter getting independent, seeing his daughter getting more and more successful in life… daddy… I love you… I never said that to him before… never… no matter what… I really wish to tell him how much I love him now… sorry daddy…

This is suppose to be an entry to wish all the daddy happy daddy’s day but ended up typing all my feelings… didn’t mean that but it just come in my mind that I wanted so much to type it out… my daddy is not a greatest guy at all but at least he is the one I love and I will remember forever and ever…

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