Saturday, May 13, 2006

psst

Okay okay enough of all these crappy tests eh? If you ever scroll down patiently you will find some updates about me… and a post for a dearly friend of mine… I think I did more than 50 tests this morning LOL… spend all my time doing crappy things hur hur…

Alright… time to hibernate as I feel a bit restless now… enjoy your weekend :P

My extroversion profile

Your Extroversion Profile:
Assertiveness: High
Friendliness: High
Cheerfulness: Medium
Sociability: Medium
Activity Level: Low
Excitement Seeking: Low

I am Sunrise

You Are Sunrise

You enjoy living a slow, fulfilling life. You enjoy living every moment, no matter how ordinary.
You are a person of reflection and meditation. You start and end every day by looking inward.
Caring and giving, you enjoy making people happy. You're often cooking for friends or buying them gifts.
All in all, you know how to love life for what it is - not for how it should be.

Low self esteem

You Have Low Self Esteem 72% of the Time

You tend to blame yourself when things go wrong, regardless of whether it's your fault or not.
You're anxious to please others and rely too much on their opinions. Learn to please yourself first, and your confidence will soar.

Job Dissatisfaction Level

Your Job Dissatisfaction Level is 56%

Well, you don't have the worst job in the world, but it's not great.
And don't worry, you're not the problem - your company is.
Start looking around for another job, even if you're not totally fed up.
Because in time, you're going to be dying to quit!

My stress level

Your Stress Level is: 55%

You are somewhat prone to stress, especially when life gets hard.
When things are good, you resist stressing over little problems.
But when things are difficult, you tend to freak out and find it hard to calm down.

My ideal relationship

Your Ideal Relationship is Marriage

You've dated enough to know what you want.
And that's marriage - with the right person.
You're serious about settling down some time soon.
Even if you haven't met the person you want to get hitched to!

My blog should be purple

Your Blog Should Be Purple

You're an expressive, offbeat blogger who tends to write about anything and everything.
You tend to set blogging trends, and you're the most likely to write your own meme or survey.
You are a bit distant though. Your blog is all about you - not what anyone else has to say.

Artist

You Should Be a Dancer

You have a unique combination of grace and athleticism..
Whether you become a salsa dancer or a ballerina, you need to get dancing!

What people envy about me

People Envy Your Generosity

You're a giving soul, and you'd do almost anything for those you love. And they'd do anything for you!
People may envy how giving you are, but more than anything, they envy those you open your heart to.

Cranberry Red

You Are Cranberry Red

Peaceful and philosophical, you are almost always at harmony with the world.
You're not very social, but you always enjoy a deep, complex conversation with a friend.
It's possible that you've been disappointed a lot in your life, but you've gotten over those disappointments quickly.
For you, each day is new and glorious. You wake up refreshed and happy, even when things aren't going your way.

My theme song

Your Theme Song is Back in Black by AC/DC

"Back in black, I hit the sack,
I've been too long, I'm glad to be back"

Things sometimes get really crazy for you, and sometimes you have to get away from all the chaos.
But each time you stage your comeback, it's even better than the last!

Donuts

You Are a Powdered Devil's Food Donut

A total sweetheart on the outside, you love to fool people with your innocent image.
On the inside you're a little darker, richer, and more complex.
You're a hedonist who demands more than one pleasure at a time.
Decadent and daring, you test the limits of human indulgence.

My birth date means

Your Birthdate: December 11

Spiritual and thoughtful, you tend to take a step back from the world.
You're very sensitive to what's going on around you, yet you remain calm.
Although you are brilliant, it may take you a while to find your niche.
Your creativity is supreme, but it sometimes makes it hard for you to get things done.

Your strength: Your inner peace

Your weakness: You get stuck in the clouds

Your power color: Emerald

Your power symbol: Leaf

Your power month: November

My candy heart says

Your Candy Heart Says "Hug Me"

A total sweetheart, you always have a lot of love to give out.
Your heart is open to where ever love takes you!

Your ideal Valentine's Day date: a surprise romantic evening that you've planned out

Your flirting style: lots of listening and talking

What turns you off: fighting and conflict

Why you're hot: you're fearless about falling in love

My World view

Your World View

You are a fairly broadminded romantic and reasonably content.
You value kindness and try to live by your ideals.
You have strong need for security, which may be either emotional or material.

You respect truth and are flexible.
You like people, and they can readily make friends with you.
You are not very adventurous, but this does not bother you.

My life path number

Your Life Path Number is 9

Your purpose in life is to make the world better

You are very socially conscious and a total idealist.
You think there are many things wrong with the world, and you want to fix them.
You have a big idea of how to world could be, and you'll sacrifice almost anything to work towards this dream.

In love, you can easily see the beauty in someone else. And you never cling too tightly.

You are capable of great love, but it's hard for you to focus your love on one person or relationship.
You have a lot of outward focus, and you tend to blame the world for your failures.
You are often disappointed by the realities of life - it's hard for you to accept the shortcomings of the world.

Age that I act

You Are 19 Years Old

Under 12: You are a kid at heart. You still have an optimistic life view - and you look at the world with awe.

13-19: You are a teenager at heart. You question authority and are still trying to find your place in this world.

20-29: You are a twentysomething at heart. You feel excited about what's to come... love, work, and new experiences.

30-39: You are a thirtysomething at heart. You've had a taste of success and true love, but you want more!

40+: You are a mature adult. You've been through most of the ups and downs of life already. Now you get to sit back and relax.

What kind of flirt of me

You Are a Natural Flirt

Believe it or not, you're a really effective flirt.
And you're so good, you hardly notice that you're flirting.
Your attitude and confidence make you a natural flirt.
And the fact that you don't know it is just that more attractive!

First born

You Are Likely a First Born

At your darkest moments, you feel guilty.
At work and school, you do best when you're researching.
When you love someone, you tend to agree with them often.

In friendship, you are considerate and compromising.
Your ideal careers are: business, research, counseling, promotion, and speaking.
You will leave your mark on the world with discoveries, new information, and teaching people to dream.

My sexy brazillian name

Your Sexy Brazilian Name is:

Isabeli de Roraima


hahahahaha

I'm a guilty ex

You Are A Guilty Ex

You weren't the greatest to your ex, and you admit it.
And now your remorse is keeping you up at night...
While feeling a little remorse is good, your guilt is preventing you from moving on

My lucky underwear

Your Lucky Underwear is Blue

You are caring and extroverted. You've made relationships your number one focus, and your lucky blue underwear can bring some balance to them.
You thrive in one-on-one situations. You are a good listener and a natural born therapist.

Sometimes you let the concerns of others become too important in your life, leading to stress and worry.
If you want more balance, put on your blue underpants. They'll help you take care of yourself first.

My IQ test

Your IQ Is 80

Your Logical Intelligence is Below Average

Your Verbal Intelligence is Below Average

Your Mathematical Intelligence is Above Average

Your General Knowledge is Average

What pie I am

You Are Lemon Meringue Pie

You're the perfect combo of sassy and sweet
Those who like you have well refined tastes

I'm a silly hat

You Are a Silly Hat

Cute, funny, and a little dorky.

My brain gender

Your Brain is 53% Female, 47% Male

Your brain is a healthy mix of male and female
You are both sensitive and savvy
Rational and reasonable, you tend to keep level headed
But you also tend to wear your heart on your sleeve

My personality profile

Your Personality Profile

You are pure, moral, and adaptable.
You tend to blend into your surroundings.
Shy on the outside, you're outspoken to your friends.

You believe that you live a virtuous life...
And you tend to judge others with a harsh eye.
As a result, people tend to crave your approval.

Blue flower

You Are a Blue Flower

A blue flower tends to represent peace, openness, and balance.
At times, you are very delicate like a cornflower.
And at other times, you are wise like an iris.
And more than you wish, you're a little cold, like a blue hydrangea.

I will die in age 67

You Will Die at Age 67

You're pretty average when it comes to how you live...
And how you'll die as well.


haha this is a funny one... when i went to see a fortune teller 2 years back... is about the same thig LOL... anyway 67 is enough for me hahahaha

I'm a fortune cookies

You Are a Fortune Cookie

You're a rather normal person, except that you have extraordinary luck in life.
People want to be around you (even when they're a little sick of you), in hopes of being lucky too!

I'm a romantic kisser

You're a Romantic Kisser

For you, kissing is all about feeling the romance
You love to kiss under the stars or by the sea
The perfect kiss involves the perfect mood
It's pretty common for kisses to sweep you off your feet

How I'm in love

How You Are In Love

You fall in love quickly and easily. And very often.

In relationships, you tend to be a bit selfish.

You tend to get very attached when you're with someone. You want to see your love all the time.

You love your partner unconditionally and don't try to make them change.

You stay in love for a long time, even if you aren't loved back. When you fall, you fall hard.

My Five Variable Love Profile

Your Five Variable Love Profile

Propensity for Monogamy:

Your propensity for monogamy is medium.
In general, you prefer to have only one love interest.
But it's hard for you to stay devoted for too long!
There's too much eye candy to keep you from wandering.

Experience Level:

Your experience level is high.
You've loved, lost, and loved again.
You have had a wide range of love experiences.
And when the real thing comes along, you know it!

Dominance:

Your dominance is medium.
You tend to be the one with more power.
You aren't a total control freak in relationships..
But of course you don't mind getting you way!

Cynicism:

Your cynicism is low.
You are an eternal optimist when it comes to love and romance.
No matter how many times you've been hurt - you're never bitter.
You believe in one true love, your perfect soulmate.
And if you haven't found true love yet, you know you will soon.

Independence:

Your independence is high.
You don't need to be in love, and sometimes you don't even want love.
Having your own life is very important for you...
Even more important than having a relationship.

An update for this week

Okay this blog will be the update from Monday… finally the house gone a bit empty where the black girl moved out and Mary gone as well… so the house got 3 guys and 1 girl left :s… I heard there will be another guy moving in today… hehe… another new housemate soon… but there is another guy again!... my crystal work too hard? LOL…

Monday was a normal day for me as just working and had Monday blue… then Tuesday had a go with my manager because tired of this job while so many things suppose to be improve but they still stuck in the same problem and same situation… spoke to my manager and I told him I am about to give up… I hate to work in this environment when people think there is a mistake that need to be changed but they just ignore that… finally had a go with everyone in the office…

Wednesday was a busy day where we got 70 people function in 7am… so I started work since 4.30am… I was suppose to start at 5am but I love to be in workplace earlier to help out… got the function organized and well prepared… when all the staffs came in and my manager was there, we have a talk again… everyone trying to do the best and we happily that day…

Thursday is a moody day for me… was thinking about the message I had with Ian in the night before… I was feeling real sick and I have to go for rest… anyway I told him he is the one I miss and that time my nick was I prefer to be single till I would not miss him anymore… so yeah, didn’t spoke much though… in this night as well got a deep talk with a dearly friend of mine… and because of the deep talk we kind of living in denial now hehe..

Friday was a day where remind me of someone… unfortunately I felt he is avoiding me or try to ignore me… okay not going to elaborate much as that is just how I think…it’s unfair for me to tell out what I think while there might be another possibility of something else…

Today is Saturday and I was awake since 6.30am just now… been laying on my bed listening to songs… and finally step out form the bed… going to do some laundry and going to bed soon for hibernating LOL… I think that is a good way to make myself rest well, replenish my sleep and get rid of thinking nonsense…

A dearly friend of mine

Sometimes something will just happened within a second or a minute without our notification… maybe we will try our best to deny it… but it will always be there in our heart…

Yesterday was a day where I miss someone accidentally… he knows it… it’s just like no way to return or no way to move forward… sigh… anyway is great to know him… time will tells…

We don’t dare to step in further because we know we will hurt each other… we know each other is just to dearly to hurt… we know if we move further we might not work things well… so we decided not to move on anymore… is kind of deal? I’m not sure… but nothing in life we should make a deal unless we are being firm and tough enough…

Nothing stays calmly in my heart; nothing stays away from my brain… I think I netter gone hibernate than staying here to think too much…

Anyway I know someone will know who it is when he reads this… I am not trying to make a big hoo haa about this… but sometimes life gone a bit messy just because we think too much hehe… we always want things we can’t have…

Friday, May 12, 2006

Mcdull

Thursday, May 11, 2006

Thanks again Justin!


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This is actually some little things for Justin :)… I hope he would like it… nothing much I can do as I am not good in design at all… but yeah… I was kinda desperate for a different header for quite sometimes… and finally I’ve got it… love it very much as it looks simple and nice… different people do have different perception… so I won’t force everyone to have a same view as me… but yeah… thanks again Justin…

To be frank… I do really appreciate for his help… feel sorry when he has to change his blog template and do all the testing in his own blog… so far I haven’t met anyone who willing to do so :P… so yeah… appreciate that…

Best thing in my life

in times of loneliness
when I feel like giving everything
I own in my life
in exchange for a moment or two
just having you
by my side
in times of desperation
when all could do
is holding on to what's left of you
just the thought of you
will always be true
you're the best thing in my life
they say that love comes easy
as the love that goes
with the hours of the night
well our mornings were always filled with
loving still in our eyes
you see I’m lost
I’m hopelessly lost
inside my mind all because of you
just the thought of you
and when the morning comes
and the sun refuses to rise
and the night goes on
without a star in the sky
I’ll still be missing you
till the very day that I die
taking with me all the pain and misery
forgotten songs and memories of you
if you could see me
and hear the words I wanted to say
with you I lived a lifetime
without you can't face another day
if I could see you
if only I could tell you
just how much i really love you
you're the best thing ever
the very best in my life

Wednesday, May 10, 2006

Special thanks to Justin

This post is a special thanks to a very creative person which is Justin Chu!!! Thanks a lot Justin! For design me the header! For testing the header! For errr ruined your own blog? LOL… anyway thanks a lot I appreciate it… thanks once again…

Monday, May 08, 2006

Heart

the way their tears make you want to change the world so that it
doesn't hurt her anymore.....Yet regardless if you love them, hate them,
wish they would die or know that you would die without them ... it matters
not. Because once in your life, whatever they were to the world they
become everything to you. When you look them in the eyes, traveling to the
depths of their souls and you say a million things without trace of a
sound,you know that your own life is inevitable consumed within the rhythmic
beatings of her very heart. We love them for a million reasons, No paper
would do it justice. It is a thing not of the mind but of theheart.

So sleepy

I can’t believe today is Monday… so sleepy now and my room is still in a huge mess because I was in the process of packing stuffs and throw away things again… yesterday took some pics for posters and soft toys… as u can see from the previous post…

Been listening to zai yi ci yong you since Friday night… is just like missing him so much… I think I better go now or else I might be late for work… wish everyone have a wonderful Monday and a good week through…

Sunday, May 07, 2006

Posters in my room


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world map poster in my room Posted by Picasa


mini poster in my room Posted by Picasa

soft toys part 3


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I still got more but no time to dig them out haha

That's just What You are

In our endeavor we are never seeing eye to eye
No guts to sever so forever may we wave goodbye
And you're always telling me that it's my turn to move
When I wonder what could make the needle jump the groove
I won't fall for the oldest trick in the book
So don't sit there and think you're off of the hook
By saying there is no use changing 'cause


That's just what you are
That's just what you are

Acting steady always ready to defend your fears
What's the matter with the truth, did I offend your ears
By suggesting that a change might be a thing to try
Like it would kill you just to try and be a nicer guy
It's not like you would lose some critical piece
If somehow you moved point A to point B
Maintaining there is no point changing 'cause


That's just what you are
That's just what you are

Now I could talk to you till I'm blue in the face
But we still would arrive at the very same place
With you running around and me out of the race


-very cool keyboard (Mellotron?) solo-


So maybe you're right, nobody can take
Something older than time and hope you could make
It better, that would be a mistake
So take it just so far


'Cause that's just what you are
That's just what you are
That's just what you are

Acting steady always ready to defend your fears
What's the matter with the truth, did I offend your ears
You're like a sleepwalking man, it's a danger to wake you
Even when it is apparent where your actions will take you


That's just what you are
And that's just what you are
That's just what you are
That's just what you are

測試你/妳有多溫柔

Q1.妳曾以哪一種姿態,瞻仰下著小雨的天空?

(A)倚窗佇立,抱胸抬眼

(B)仰身或坐著,手肘拄窗,雙掌托腮



Q2.小皮球落入妳家院子,妳會如何?

(C)彎腰拾起,拋給院外撿球的孩童

(D)打開院子的門,讓孩童進來撿拾





*~解 析~*

(1)選A.C

(2)選A.D

(3)選B.C

(4)選B.D

◎選(1)的人

有著距離式的溫柔,是平靜的,是不給壓力的,是不望回報不求讚賞的,只要
對方因為你得溫柔而過的更好,你就滿足了,這樣的你,待人體諒處事無爭,
溫柔的應對,是由衷的顯露.

◎選(2)的人

有著互動式的溫柔,在付出溫柔時,也會想要得到對方的溫柔,這樣的溫柔,
懷著期盼,隱含需求,難免會給對方壓力,這樣的你,可以為了對方而變得很
溫柔,雖然不失真誠,卻也難免虛偽矯飾.

◎選(3)的人

有著被動式的溫柔,總是期盼,總在等待,非得對方有所表現才會給予回應,
這樣的溫柔裡,有著孩子般純真依賴的心情,帶些稚氣卻又不失女人味,這樣的
你,配合度好,逢迎度高,常會溫柔中失去一些特質.

◎選(4)的人

有著附和式的溫柔,會為了一些人或一些事而令自己溫柔,這樣的溫柔,需要對方
主導,有賴別人配合,不失需索的心態,有點演戲的調調,卻也由衷,這樣的你,有著
女人的嬌蠻,孩子的依賴,是個需要大家疼愛的女人.

什麼情況之下你會醋勁大發

你一個人在沙灘上散步,突然看到飛碟從眼前閃過,你覺得它會發出什麼聲音?

1。咻咻咻大聲到小聲

2。轟!的一大聲

3。嘎嘎嘎一直不停

4。沒有任何聲音

5。不定時的呼呼呼

選擇(1)的人:〔當另一半跟異性打情又罵俏〕......你就會醋意大發

→ 這類型的人會覺得自己很不受尊重,所以會非常生氣。


選擇(2)的人:〔當另一半和同性搞曖昧關係〕......你就會醋意大發

 → 這類型的人當他發現另一半跟同性之間有親熱的舉動,會有五雷轟頂的感覺,事後

  會發現自己憤怒多於忌妒,甚至會去懷疑另一半的性向的問題。


選擇(3)的人:〔當另一半跟舊情人糾纏不清時〕......你就會醋意大發

→ 這類型的人內心深處很直率,非黑即白,很討厭灰色地帶。


選擇(4)的人:〔當另一半太照顧別人而忽略你〕......你就會醋意大發

→ 這類型的人最討厭另一半把自己當空氣,很希望對方焦點全在自己身上。

選擇(5)的人:〔當另一半太自戀只愛自己〕......你就會醋意大發

→ 這類型的人很希望兩人感情是互動的,穩定的,而自戀的人是比較自私的,所以

   會引爆出他對對方很多事情都看不順眼。

不在身边,不等于不爱你!

常常觉得,谈恋爱的人就像小孩子一样,要宠著哄著,要时时陪伴,更要无微不至。
还记得吗?在我们很小的时候,只要看不见妈妈,就会因为不安而大哭起来。
其实,妈妈只是不在我们的眼前,我们只因为眼前看不见,所以就认为妈妈不见了,认为妈妈不见了的同时,也以为妈妈不爱我们了。
恋爱,不就跟那时的我们很像?

手牵手逛街的时候,我们都觉得对方是百分之百地爱著我们。
可是,就从道了再见,关上家门的那一刻起,内心悬念,因为见不到,担心对方有没有想念我们。听不到,见不到的我们,忧虑对方会不忠於我们,只因为不在我们身边,我们就以为爱会不见,却不知道,不在身边的他,不等於不爱你。
很多事情,看不到不等於不存在。而且,每一个人都是恋爱中的人,所以,不安的不只我们,还有看不见我们的他,彼此,都有著一样的不安,都期望相同的谅解。

有时候,我们会抱怨当我们需要他的时候,他是不在身旁,可有些时候,他最需要我们的时候,我们也不知情,不是吗?
我想,很多人在年轻的时候,都会很热衷於工作,也有很多人的工作,属於长期需要超时工作的状态,对这些人的恋人来说,也许觉得心爱的人常常无法照顾自己,可对那些人来说也是相同的,心爱的人常常不在身边,不管因为什麽原因无法见面或分隔两地,真心相爱的两个人,内心所感受的寂寞与不安会是相同的,彼此,都有可能在最需要对方的时候,却必须一个人坚强起来。
他是爱你的,就如同看不见他的你,
还是深深爱著他的,不是吗?
吃到好吃的东西时,看到美丽的景物时,都会希望和他分享,他不在身边的时候,你不也抱著这样的心情在爱他吗?
为何,就不能相信他也和你一样呢?你说是吗?

我相信,真心相爱的两个人,就算不在彼此身边,还是深深爱著的,
两颗心,也会因为著爱,而紧紧相系。
祝福所有人都能找到所爱。

我们常常怀疑自己 明明条件不差为什麽偏偏没有另一半,
而那些不那麽漂亮不那麽可爱不那麽幽默的人反而拥有令人羡慕的感情,为什麽呢……?
我想是因为我们都太小心太谨慎太不敢去爱了。
我们将自己的感情包装的好好的,不让对方发现。为了所谓的矜持与害怕,选择等待,选择放弃,选择错过……
被爱很幸福。可以接受可以拒绝可以有面子於是我们总是等著人家来爱。但是,当我们发现没办法爱上对方时呢?又或是我爱的人永远都不说爱我呢 ?
我该接受那段不期盼的感情,还是勇於追求自己的幸福呢? 
不敢接受爱我的人的情感,也不肯去追求心动的对象,只是偷偷希望对方能主动,难怪会这麽的寂寞。这是因为,不给别人也不给自己任何的机会。但是,在这个大家都那麽脆弱的时代, 或许男男女女都选择了沉默。我们在暧昧的界线中游走,不太近,也不太远。在若有若无的暗示中,期盼对方的回应。
喜欢一个人,何必在意先说出口?
想跟一个人牵著手一直一直走下去,分享自己的喜怒哀愁,这样美丽的心情 难得一见。

我们都要学著更温柔,对爱我们或我们爱的人……
认真接受,认真付出,遗憾与後悔,比什麽都让人难过。
别让幸福又由身边流失了,更珍惜所有的一切!

当你觉得该爱的时候
请大声说出来:“我爱你!”
不要等待,生命只有一次……!

50种珍惜生命的态度

1、为爱而生  
只有爱,能使世界转得更圆;只有爱,能创造奇迹。

  能够看见别人的好,就会提升自己的好;

  能够说出别人的好,就会强化对方与自己要更好。

  爱是一切的原动力。


  2、做自己的心灵捕手  
把实现自己生命第一优先考虑,

  善待内在的小孩,给他勇气、信心和生命,

  想念自己,做你自己,宽恕自己,对自己负责,

  善用感觉,热情行动,活出真正的自己。



  3、简单生活  

你真正需要的不是那么多,

  多出来的任何一样东西对别人都有用,

  将它送出去,或是捐出去义卖,让真正需要的人善用,

  简单生活惯之后,生命自然不再累赘。



  4、拥抱别人,让人拥抱

  拥抱是一件完美的礼物,老少咸宜,

  而且拿它给别人交换,没有人会放弃的。

  练习用拥抱代替说话,表达内心最深刻的感受,

  即时的拥抱能传送安慰与支持,传递生命活力。

  拥抱疗效:续命,每天四抱;保养,每天八抱;除病,每天十二抱。



  5、家庭优先  
和乐家庭最高指导原则:日常体贴,遇事幽默。

  家庭关系是你这辈子最有意义的投资,

  试着每天用十五分钟,和配偶、孩子,甚至宠物,

  共同分享回忆、经验、想法、梦想和创意。

6、别为小事抓狂  
你为什么生气?塞车、买票插队、同事争执、服务生态度恶劣……

  生气之前,思考哪些才是真正值得生气的情况,

  例如:虐待儿童、人民遭受饥饿之苦、战争……

  相较之下 ,就可以知道这些事是多不值得生气。

  将怒气转向值得生气的事上,

  并且想想自己可以为这些情况做什么。



  7、找寻老友

  爱情常来来去去,朋友总是越陈越香。

  曾经同甘共苦的朋友是上帝给的礼赞,

  花点时间列出老朋友清单,

  拨个电话聊聊或访友,

  寻回那曾有的感动与契合。



  8、创意生活家  
别让一成不变的生活,腐蚀生命的热力,

  试着吃半饱、花一半,使用比平时少一半的资源。

  试试看即使有样东西不够用了,是否能够找到替代品,

  既可以发挥创意,也能为环保尽一份心力。



  9、练习冒险

  无数的第一次造就了你,

  生命就像一辆十段变速的单车,

  大部分的人只用到低速档。

  你应该尝试新事物,

  先从小冒险做起,充分发挥自己的潜能,

  同时不忘赞美自己的勇气。



  10、说谢谢你
  一日平安,一日感谢。

  培养强烈的感恩心,

  每天至少谢谢一个人,

  告诉他们你喜欢、仰慕或欣赏他的地方。

11、别对你的人生说没空  
日常生活需要良性循环,

  人生只有一次,休息是为了走更远的路。

  每个月定出一天可以彻底休息,放自己一天假。



  12、活到老学到老  
学习不一定只在学生时代,

  学习是更好生活的开始。

  无论是选一门不算学分的课,

  还是向同事学习某些嗜好或兴趣,

  甚至边开车边学习随身携带书籍,

  试着从不同方向找出兴趣,生命会更开阔。



  13、奉献给予
  奉献能让你花小钱拥有极大快乐,

  助人度难关的方式很多,给予食物、衣物、工作、金钱、时间,

  你可以由简单的方式开始,比如捐出收入的5%,

  仔细考虑哪些是真正需要你帮助的人,

  把有限的钱放在最需要帮助的人身上,最能产生无限的功效。



  14、与敌人和好
  抱持宽容态度,以倾听来代替争吵,

  让自己变得更温柔与仁慈。

  不要把问题过度放大,

  试着问自己:一年后,我还会在意这件事吗?



  15、活出健康的人生

  分析自己的饮食习惯,

  找出需要改进的地方,让营养更均衡。

  每周至少三次运动,持之以恒,

  至少上一次恢复精力的课程(如瑜珈或太极),

  身心健康,精力充沛。

16、让快乐贴身相随

  快乐的人会微笑或哼唱,甚至吹口哨,

  有快乐的想法,你就会飞起来。

  专注地想快乐的事,让自己产生向上飞跃的力量。

  日积月累,快乐会变成一种习惯。



  17、年轻不老心
  忘记身份证上的年龄,

  找出自己觉得重要的,以及会让自己心跳加速的事物,

  让这些点点滴滴充满生活,

  就能让自己的心态变年轻。



  18、磨亮想像力
  要更有创意,就要像孩子般地思考,

  比如重看一本最喜欢的童书,学习小孩子的思考方式;

  或者读一首诗,在心里想像它的意境;

  一边听广播的古典音乐、爵士乐或世界音乐,

  一边想像音乐所传达的景致……都可以提升想像力。



  19、笑纹比皱纹重要
  儿童平均一天笑500次,成人只笑15次,

  任何小事都可以让小孩乐不可支,鼓励自己在笑声中享受人生。



 20、救救地球 

  减少物品使用量,减少用水,减少用纸,减少开车,减少包装,少用清洁剂,

  避免用过即丢,减少用量,重复使用,环保回收,自然就在你心中。

21. 救一个生命

  找寻失踪儿、受虐儿,

  施舍金钱或付出时间、体力、可以改变别人的生命,

  个人视野也会因了解另一层面的生活而提升,

  更可以为这些孩子带来希望与远景。



  22. 试试双手的力量
  人生的意义在于创造,艺术可以提升人的生命境界,

  每做一件事,记得多加些巧思,

  在每件所做的事情上,发挥报告才能,加入你自己。

  亲自动手做,享受四肢劳动的乐趣,

  即使是简单的维修工作都是原创的艺术品。



  23. 记得多玩玩

  利用余遐时间享受游玩的乐趣,

  重新学习游乐技巧,彻底享受自由的快乐。



  24. 三人行必有我师

  和各方面的人保持联系,增加从他人身上获得情报的机会。

  同时拥有会批评的朋友,因为对方拥有你缺乏的部分,

  学习接受建设性的批评,忽略琐碎的批评。



  25. 适当的自私

  你有权主导自己的生活,你有全权对别人的要求说不,

  你有权对批评你或贬低你的人表示意见,

  你有权和别人分享你的感情,收加生活控制权。


  26. 分享

  不论是分享阅读心得或是生活偶得,

  让东家长西家短的无聊变成丰富彼此生命的启发。

  经由感受每个人不同的经验,

  赋予生命全新的刺激与成长,世界将转得更好。



  27. 重回孩提时代

  抛开一些已养成的大人行为或习惯,不要剥夺与天俱来的纯真特质,

  与小孩相处(担任孩子的课外营老师、自愿当儿童球队教练);

  重读一些小时候听过的故事,可以回忆小时候的情景;

  看看旧时留下的物品,如成绩单、劳作或礼物;

  到念过的小学走一遍,发现自己曾发生过的事或当时的梦想。



  28. 向自然学习

  自然中蕴含生活哲学,是生命的指示灯,

  能帮助你发现自己的定位与热情所在。

  从四季的替换,我们学会从悲伤中复元,

  因为生命是周而复始,生生不息的。

  而自然的多样化风貌,都我们学会拒绝大众压力,

  教我们学会表达真实的自我。



  29. 心灵慢跑

  心灵激励可以预防精神疾病,

  让心灵保持思考,也会减慢老化的速度。

  编一本梦想书,做做白日梦都是可行的。



  30. 活出热情

  支离破碎的灵魂得到的往往是乏味的成功,

  对生活的兴趣应高于购物,用最小的时间工作,

  将大部份的时间给自己感兴趣的事情,

  做自己爱做的事,做你想做的,说你想说的,

  学习享受生活,享受你做的任何事情。

31. 可以不完美  
每个人天生不同,接受自己,也同样接受别人,

  用慈悲心训练自己爱缺憾中美丽的事物。



  32. 勇闯生命难关

  有人为工作而生活,有人因梦想而生活,

  有人因为要找出究竟为什么要活着而继续生活,

  生是上天赋予的权利,活则要*自我的智慧与勇气。



  33. 打开地图去旅行

  到任何你有兴趣或好奇的城市旅行。

  旅行,潜藏着一份改变自己和生活的渴求,

  在旅行中可以得到不可思议的收获,

  变得不容易害怕,遇到问题时较能从容应付,

  知道自己离农在外时最想念、牵挂的是什么,最可有可无的是什么。



  34. 简单干净就是品味

  不论是扫地抹桌子,晾衣服晒被单,都能特别仔细,特别用心,

  让延长使用年限的心,取代用过即丢的习惯;

  用全新的恋旧心情,与日常生活建立恒久感情。

  用材质好、式样大方的家具取代三五年就必须汰换的三夹板;

  用设计简单、质地宜人,可以一穿再穿取代追求流行的穿衣风格。



  35. 在家做义工

  慈善事业可以先从家里做起,

  可以先把服务心用在家里,把家里整理好,花些时间和家人相处,

  为别人做些事可以让生活更添乐趣与价值,

  也会让你的人生更有成就。


36. 再试一下

  人生最大的压力来源是怕压力,

  当你相信自己能、而能面对事情时,

  这已是一个好的开端,一切的多虑都将消失,

  你终会发现:事情并不棘手难办,

  别人能、当然,你也能。



  37. 命运操之在我

  一块钱、一句好话、一件善事、一点知识、一些方便、一个笑容,

  都可以改变自己的命运。



  38. 生命的财富

  时间就是财富,

  但是时间的意义在于(运用),而非(节省)。

  好好运用上天给予每个人的同等财富。



  39. 为生命加油

  你此生最大恐惧是什么?最担心最害怕的是什么?

  是害怕应该表达的心意来不及表达?

  这是害怕心愿不能实现?

  把今天当作最后一天来活,

  知道此生担优会常在,恐惧就已不中惧。



  40. 多为别人想一想

  爱有多深,包容与体谅就有多深,

  敢爱的人才敢去包容和体谅他所爱的人。

  做个善于体谅的人,多给对方时间与空间,

  做个有智慧与爱心的人。


41. 随时等着被利用

  让服务变成生命中的一部分,

  用生命服务、肯定自己。



  42. 化不幸为助力

  自己是态度的主宰,而态度决定未来,

  从跌倒中站起来,化悲痛为力量,

  每种不幸都蕴含同等或更大利益的种子。



  43. 优点轰炸

  每个人都有优点,但习惯看别人缺点,

  试着做好话连篇、用心说好话的人,勇于表白,

  要去掉别人身上的刺,最好的方法是拍拍他的背。



  44. 和自己赛跑

  学习和自己比,忘记曾经拥有的分数,

  现在要关注的是,如何让今天过得比昨天好,

  用心去发现,能看到生命更宽广的蓝天。



  45. 换个角度,心中一片天

  别人也许是对的,

  不要让自己受执着的困惑,

  便能了解万物,欣赏及认同世间一切。

46. 乐观

  处于痛苦时,最有效的事物就是乐观。

  凡事往好处想,

  乐观的人可以发明飞机,

  悲观的人就只能发明降落伞。



  47. 真心聆听

  通往内心深处的是耳朵,

  专心聆听并适当回应,对别人是一种很大的鼓舞。



  48. 好奇心不打烊

  世界上只有愚人,没有愚问。

  对所有的事物保持一颗敏感的心,

  好奇是所有人类文明进步的开始。



  49. 情绪急转弯

  事情没有变,变的是你的观念。

  改变想法,就能改变情绪,

  带来完全不同的结果。



  50. 我真的很不错

  每个人都是一座宝藏,凡人也有超人力量,

  成功在于唤醒心中的巨人,开发自己的宝藏。